Hey everyone!  We’re back with another quarterly update. Like last time, we’ll focus today’s post on a life & spending update this week and then net worth update next post.  

What Happened in Q3 2022

  • We made it out to the cabin two more times this summer (July and August) for swimming lessons, raspberry picking, Saskatoon berry picking, lake walks, and sand castle building.   
  • Our little lady decided this was the summer to swim on her own.  She is VERY proud that she can now dive and swim by herself.  Water wings, they are all yours Parker! She has become obsessed with diving goggles.
  • We went out camping twice this summer.  First up was the annual ChooseFI Alberta camping trip which I’d guess had 40 people in attendance.  It was great to connect with others and chat openly about personal finance.  The second trip was a last minute decision to join our friends and camp and then explore the Royal Tyrell Museum the next day.  Oh my.  I normally am not the best museum enthusiast, but I loved this museum!  It was massive and had so many amazing dinosaur fossils on display.  Highly recommend and we will be making this an annual trip.
  • Finn and one of her buddies hosted their very first lemonade stand!  They made a fantastic duo and made $85!! I don’t think any of us could believe it.  After splitting the proceeds, paying the “parent tax” ($3 each for supplies), and designating $5 each to go to the local Humane Society, they netted $35 each.  Finn was adamant about purchasing this $10 toy we saw at the store a few week prior and invested the rest.  She sat on my lap and we invested in her informal trust so she could own a little piece of every company in the world.  
  • Finn has also started preschool which has been….going.  She hates drop off but she loves being there.  It’s a very love-hate relationship.  From a financial side, thanks to Alberta’s recent affordable child care subsidies it costs $0/month from our end for her to attend preschool, woohoo!
  • We saw a flight deal for non-stop flights from Calgary to Amsterdam open up so we jumped on them and decided on Portugal for our winter travel plans!  We will be heading there for 2 months (late January – late March) and will try to rent out our home while we’re gone to offset costs. (Whoooooo’s eyeing a trip to the Canadian Rockies?!)  For the first few weeks our plans were changing every day but I think we finally have our itinerary figured out now. 
  • September is larch season around here so we went on our annual family larch hike with some friends to see those beauties.  

  • I recorded my first international guest interview!  Yale from the Yale Chen YouTube channel reached out to interview us about our FIRE journey.  Yale is based out of Thailand and runs a youtube channel in Asia for Chinese speaking audiences from Taiwan, Malaysia, Singapore, Hong Kong, and more. They have over 240,000 subscribers on Youtube and around 140,000 on Instagram.  It’s so cool to know that people literally on the other side of the world are (hopefully) being inspired by our story.  The FIRE really is spreading.  You can check out the interview here (note my portion is in English with mandarin subtitles). 
  • The obvious big life update this quarter is deciding to pull the plug on returning to the corporate world and officially enter the world of early retirement!

Taking Stock Book Giveaway

Jordan Grumet, aka DocG, truly has a way with words – whether it’s speaking on his amazing podcast (Earn & Invest) or through written words in his new book. It is very clear he is trying his best in this next chapter of life (post-FI) to help out others, which truly is admirable.

While this book likely falls in the personal finance category, it isn’t primarily about money. Rather, it’s is about valuing the one life you have and how you can shape how you think about money to be able to focus on what’s truly important. Figuring out what YOU value is one of the most important things out there – the sooner you can master that, the better.

As a hospice doctor, Doc has heard the stories of those in their last moments. He has had a career listening to the regrets of those who are dying. Not only has he been able to create a successful career in medicine – he’s also been able to figure out what truly is important in life through his patients. He graciously writes about what he has learned over the years so that we may apply the wisdom to our own lives to learn how to live a purposeful life without regrets.

From the amazing foreword by Vicki Robin to the very last chapter – this well written book with leave you with many takeaways. One of my favourite things about Doc G’s podcast is how it is so evident that he puts in a ton of time ahead of recording to research each podcast guest and it’s just as clear that much care and devotion was put into his book as well.

Doc has graciously provided me with a copy of the book and I’d highly recommend it. Doc G is also looking to gift an Audible copy of his new book to a lucky blog reader. In order to be considered for the book, please answer the following question in the comments below:

“What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”

Spending Report

Here are the larger one off expenses we encountered this quarter:

  • We installed a remote start on our new-to-us Subaru Outback.  While we technically don’t *have* to rush out of the door to be at a meeting at a specific time and instead can pick and choose when we want to use our vehicle, this is definitely a discretionary spending purchase this native Floridian is going to make if I’m living through Canadian winters!   This cost ~$550 for the two remotes plus installation.
  • We purchased our annual pass for a provincial park nearby which cost $100.
  • We all had our last round of dental cleanings while I still had my supplemental health plan with work in place.  My work covered 70% and our remaining 30% of the bill was $375.
  • Finn started preschool so we paid for June 2023 as an upfront deposit ($195) and $80 for materials for the year.  As noted above, her preschool ends up costing us $0/month with the subsides in place, so we should be getting that deposit back.  
  • Passports for the two kiddos cost $115.
  • We purchased my mom’s flight to come visit us in October for $400.
  • We ended up purchasing our 3 round trip flights from Calgary – Amsterdam (Parker is free as he’s under 2) vs using some of our points. Total cost was $2,000.
  • Nic signed up for an adult soccer league for $215 which runs weekly from October – April. 

Overall Spending

Since June 2021 was when I first started parental leave we decided that July 1st – June 30th will be how we tally up our spending in our post-FIRE world. So let’s see how our Q1 spending report is shaping up.  

After adding everything up, we spent $8,761 this quarter.  If we multiply this by 4 and add in $5,000 for the kiddos RESPs it’s actually quite eerie how close we are to $40,000 ($40,044). 

As for Portugal, we are estimating that we are going to spend $6,500 on this 2 month trip between airfares, airbnbs, and car rentals (of which $2,000 is reported here so far).  This is way over our annual travel budget!  However, we are hoping to rent out our house while we are gone to help offset some of these costs. We are hopeful that we can net a least $4,000 from our house while we’re gone to lower our overall net cost to $2,500 for this trip.  That’s more like it.  

If we do rent our house out (I am hopeful, Nic is much more pessimistic about it all) I’m quite confident we can keep our annual spending around/below $40,000 for the year again.  

That’s it for now!  Remember to comment below answering the following the question if you’d like to win a free copy of Taking Stock!

“What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”

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  1. Pingback: Quarterly Life & Spending Update: Q3 2022 + Book Giveaway! - news.iNthacity: More Top Breaking News and Popular Stories To Stay Informed

  2. “What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”: I had worked too much in my life and had not spent enough/quality time with my family….

    1. I think that’s a fantastic guess. Soooo many people think I just need to work more, to make more, to provide for my family. For some people, yes this may be true but for others the reality is try to scale back and try to actually enjoy the time that you have your family around with you.

  3. Woot woot, excited for your upcoming trip! I must say that you’re one of my favourite Podcast guest speakers.. loved every episode in Expore FI Canada and absolutely enjoyed your most recent interview at Choose FI. Please keep up the good work and spread FI spirit! Sending lots of love and support from Vancouver 🙂

  4. “What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”

    – I think that the most common regret is not spending more time with friends and family (especially when the kids are young).

    1. Fantastic guess – It’s so easy to be consumed in one’s own life – work deadlines, meal prep, gym classes, etc that we forget to reach out to friends and family. It is sad when connections and relationships really are so important.

    1. Great guess Philip – It is pretty crazy how time is our most precious resource yet most of the time we don’t treat it that way.

  5. “What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”
    – I’d say they worked too much and too long to enjoy life and time with loved ones.

    1. Great guess Paddy – it is crazy how many hours most people spend at work when you compare it to free time to enjoy themselves!

  6. I think I’ve posted this before, but we’re also in Portugal the last week of January! Lisbon and Porto. I still need to nail down our itinerary so if you have any tips… 🙂

    “What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”
    Worked too much, spent too little time with friends and family. Experiences > Money.

  7. I think I’ve mentioned this before, but we’re also in Portugal at the end of January! Lisbon and Porto. I haven’t fully worked out our itinerary so if you have any tips… 🙂

    “What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”
    Not spending enough time with friends and family. Experiences > Money

    1. Ah awesome! We will be in Lisbon from January 25-29 – let’s meet up! Our itinerary was changing daily for a few weeks but I think we have it all sorted out now. Will write a future post with more details! Feel free to email me at ModernFImily@gmail.com and I’ll send you the itinerary

      Great guess – experiences sure do carry more value than more money but it’s so hard for people to grasp that concept!

  8. I think the main regret Doc heard was for people/patients not doing things they wanted to do when they had the chance.

    Otherwise, always a pleasure to read your posts

    1. Thanks Dave!

      Great guess – it is true that you hear so often “oh I’ll do that next time” to not have a next time come up

  9. Too much time working and not enough time with loved ones is my guess! Something I try to keep front of mind every day.

    1. Great guess Amanda – and so glad you keep it at the front of your mind. There is a fine line between working to save and invest but also enjoying life along the way.

  10. “What do you think the most common regret is that Doc G heard from his patients?”

    I think they regret not living true to themselves and their values

    1. Isn’t it crazy how so many people fall into this category? Living life on someone else’s terms, it’s so sad eh

  11. Thanks for the update, it’s always great to read something positive.

    I suspect what DocG heard the most were regrets about relationships (very general I know, but I’m not trying to win), however, it got me thinking about what I would say. I think it would be along the lines of wishing I had been a kinder and warmer person. I’m not bad toward others, just a little cold and distant. Fortunately, I’m not dead yet, so I’m going to try and do something about it before it’s too late.

    1. Thanks Bob 🙂

      I appreciate the self reflection – the household I grew up in was a very warm “hugger” type whereas Nic’s family is much more the “cold and distant” type. It’s never too late to add in some extra hugs and warmth!

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